Knowing The Signs Of Autism

   As a parent of three children I always looked forward to seeing when they first crawled, when they stood up on their own, their first step, their first word. These are basic signs every parent should suspect as their child grows. But what happens when the child doesn't exhibit these accomplishments or stops making progress. Well then as a parent that's where some common sense comes in and you are now alerted that something is going on. Don't ignore your suspicions. Knowing the signs of Autism or any disability comes from the parents concerns first. We know our children best. We have to act quickly when we feel something is not right. Its the only way to receive the best diagnoses and services. As much as it overwhelms you and makes you cry to think or know that something can be wrong you have to stay positive and stay strong. Its only a diagnosis and does not change who your child is. Here are some signs of Autism to look for:

• Poor eye contact
•  Repetitive behaviors ( lining items in a row, watches shows repeatedly, hand flapping)
•  Loss of speech
•  Walking on tip toes
•  Poor social skills
•  Plays by themselves and plays with a particular part of toy ( like wheels on a car)
•  Struggles to express feelings
• Doesn't exhibit understanding of ones directions

It is very difficult to see your child struggle in many areas but by not being aware of what's going on is even more difficult. As parents you will hurt, cry, and have so many questions. Take the first step in understanding the signs and then keep moving forward to help your child achieve their full potential. You are never alone on your journey. There are many parents who are on the same journey. You just have to walk alongside your child and they will guide you down the path and show you the way. Never lose HOPE!!

My Son's Opportunity

            I know it has been a while since I blogged about my son. So I will write one for him. I have seen many changes with my son since he has started school. His academic performance is rising. He shows his capabilities in his assignments. He is willing to try even if he is unsure ( that is a big step for him and me!!). His social skills are remarkable as well his self esteem. He has many more interests in hobbies and sports I cant keep up with it. He always wants to sign up for something new. So he told me he wanted to sign up for flag football. When the roster came out his name was not on it. He was very upset about it and I told him to speak with the coach and ask him why didn't you make the team. I knew why my son didn't make the team ( the coach saw that he didn't know the rules and how to play).  Which in my opinion is totally wrong! Every child should be given an equal opportunity. My son went to school the next day and asked the coach why didn't he make the team. The coach only responded with " Tell your mother to write me a note stating that you can play flag football". ( I think the coach knew he was wrong). I had tears of joy when I heard he was on the team. The news just made my our day! I was very happy and grateful to the coach for allowing my son an opportunity to participate in the sport. No matter what disability a child might have they should be given opportunities like everyone else. Equal treatment goes for everyone. There should be no such thing as discrimination against our special needs children!! They are human too.