Monday, January 28, 2013

Hopeful Words To Encourage

You do not understand my situation
So don't look at me like I'm different
You look at stare with a puzzled face
As if I dont belong, and its not my place
Do not judge a book by it's cover
You should understand, especially if your a mother
Of a child who needs special care
People always assume and it's not FAIR
I am one of god's gifts just like you
So lets come together and start brand new.

A Poem for Children With Disabilities

No matter what your disability may be
Always remember we all see
How special you are
There are many others who come from afar
You are not alone we are here
There is nothing you have to fear
Your dreams await for you to chase
You will make this world a better place.

My Heartfelt Words

My little girl who shines so bright
You are the center of my life
God has given you to me
For the whole world to see
I am here for you through thick and thin
AUTISM is a battle we will win
No matter what comes our way
I will always be here, I'm here to stay
I know things are not so clear
But there is nothing you have to fear
I will be your voice
I know that this was not by choice
I see just who you are
My little shining star
You know that "I Love You"
I'm glad you love me too!!

A Poem For My Little Girl

You do not compare to the rest
In my eyes you are the best
Its not a bad thing you soon will see
This world might be big, but its just you and me
You are my gift sent from above
For you I give all my love
Everyday is a blessing
Even though I'm always stressing
I think to myself what else can I do?
And the answer is, just to love you
I am happy to say you are mine
I know in time things will be fine
I will be with you side by side
I am here for you, I am your guide
I thank god for answering my prayers
He gave me a child that I can share
My love for you is beyond great
I'm very pleased that THIS is my fate
I get to spend everyday with you
My dear Katelyn, " I Love you too".

Words Of HOPE

  My little girl is very UNIQUE
  She has AUTISM and does not speak
  She has a lot of things to say
  She shows me in her own special way
  I wish to hear "I Love You"
  Maybe not right now, someday it will come true
  You do not see her through my eyes
  Everyday I cry
  To see her struggle and try
  It takes her a bit longer to get it right
  But this is something we will FIGHT
 We will not stop until the end
  I am always here because you are my godsend
  I will take care of you everyday
 And show 'I Love You' in everyway.

Thursday, January 3, 2013

10 Tips For Venturing Out With Your Autistic Child

    Parenting is a lot of work. Going out with your child can be difficult. Here are some tips to consider when venturing out.
  • Bring toys your child likes.
  • Prepare a plan in case of a meltdown.
  • Bring juice and snacks they like.
  • Keep your child entertained while out.
  • Redirect any bad behavior into something fun.
  • Limit activities. You dont want your child to be overtired.
  • Allow breaks and alone time when needed.
  • Be clear when giving directions.
  • Use time out if needed.
  • Make sure your child is comfortable.
I wish the best of luck as you go on your ventures with your children. Stay postive and have fun!

How Early Intervention Has Helped My Daughter

     My daughter has been diagnosed with classic Autism for almost a year now. My daughter was not on the appropiate age level and was behind in a lot of areas. We started Early Intervention right away. Within a few months of EI my daughter showed so much progress.
     Her cognitive and receptive were on the right age level. I was amazed at how EI helped my daughter. I can now ask my daughter to do things and she understands. I can play with her and see she is really happy. She is able to point to things she wants and uses sign language to communicate with me.
  Early Intervention has given me more then peace of mind, it has given me HOPE. Everyday my daughter makes progress, there is HOPE. For every mile stone, there is HOPE. Early Intervention has left a great impact on my life. When you see progress it fills you up with joy. I am forever grateful for the HOPE Early Intervention has given me.

Wednesday, January 2, 2013

Understanding & Acceptance

         We need to move forward when it comes to Autism. People need to be understanding and accept what Autism is. My heart breaks when I get stares and hear whispers. Until people understand then they can have their comments. There are so many misinformed people. My daughter has Autism and everyday is difficult. She may not talk but she has a lot to say in her own way. She is very smart it just takes her a little longer to learn.
    She can play like other kids. She has feelings too. Please be understanding and educated about Autism. All parents of autistic kids want understanding and acceptance. So please next time you see a child misbehaving don't be so quick to judge. You don't know what we feel as a parent of an autistic child.
     My daughter doesn't talk. I can't ask her how her day was and get a response. I don't like to see my child struggle while other kids can get it right. Everyday we feel pain when our children struggle. They are viewed as not normal. We cannot change our children but we can change the world's view on Autism. Children with Autism are beautiful, smart, bright kids.Open your heart and your minds and you will see how bright our kids are!!!! Help spread Autism awareness and acceptance. Our kids deserve that much.