Tuesday, June 11, 2013

Sibling Acceptance

        Since my daughters diagnosis a little over a year ago I have seen so many changes. The way she learns and the way she interacts with others, especially with her two older siblings. In the beginning it was difficult for her to play because she didn't know how to and they didn't know how to play with her. So I explained to my older children how they can learn to understand her and how they can teach her to understand them. Since then, they have made such a strong bond.
        I see the smiles on their faces when they are together. Seeing my older children play with their baby sister is such a great feeling. They understand what she faces everyday and are always teaching her new things. They are her protectors and biggest supporters. The love they have for each other is amazing. Watching them hug each other makes my heart flutter. I am the happiest mother ever.
        I am glad that they can accept autism as part of our family and also accept their sister for who she is. When they look at their little sister all they see is a beautiful, smart little girl and I'm happy to say that ALL OF MY CHILDREN ARE AMAZING and it makes me proud as a mom!!!!

Friday, June 7, 2013

Summer Safety Tips

Summer is approaching and the kids are going to want to do a lot of stuff to keep busy. There are many activities that will keep the kids busy. There are arts and crafts activities. Going to the library to enhance their reading skills. You can go to a pool, there is a fun filled day of staying cool. For many parents of a child with autism these activities can become our worse nightmare. Especially taking our kids swimming. Many kids with autism love water. They love it so much that we have to keep a very close eye so they dont wonder off. Here are some tips to ensure a safe and fun summer.
1. If you have a child who wanders check out www.projectlifesaver.com and call your local police department for more information and apply. It can save your childs life. Its a GPS device that can locate your child if they wander off. It may be free to you through your local police department.
2.Always make sure you have everything you need to go swimming before you leave the house.
3. Put a life jacket on your child even if you are at a lake or beach and they are only going to sit right on the sand at the water. Kids are quick and can run into the open water with a blink of an eye.
4. Always accompany your child in the water and keep a very close eye on them.
5. Never leave your child alone in the water not even with a sibling. Kids don't listen to their siblings. ( I know I didn't).
6. Take your child out of the water with you if you need to use the restroom or for whatever reason you need to leave the water.
7. Keep your child entertained. Bring a ball, shovel and bucket, coloring book and crayons. Or whatever you think will keep them entertained in case of a meltdown.
8. Explain to your other children how they can help out and make it comfortable and fun for their sibling. ( if they are old enough to understand).
9. Have a great lunch together. Enjoy and laugh together.
10. Have a fun, relaxing, memorable day with your family. Some days may not be perfect and go as planned but there is always tomorrow!!